Life coaching to find what’s holding you back and help you reach your goals
Free · 30 minutes · No pressure
The pros-and-cons lists, the books, the long talks with friends haven't settled it, whether it's about work, a relationship, or what comes next. Often that's because every option gets measured against someone else's opinions and expectations: a parent, a community, or who you used to be. Nobody should need someone else's approval to know what they want.
You got the job, the relationship, or the life you were supposed to want, and it still doesn't feel like yours.
You still run decisions past people who won't have to live with them.
You're busy all the time, and none of it adds up to what you actually want to be doing.
Left alone, it usually gets heavier. People describe burnout and exhaustion, and doing their work out of obligation instead of joy. Meanwhile, the decision is still sitting there.
Coaching gives you room to hear what you actually think, then practice trusting it on what's in front of you now, so you can get clear on this step and whatever comes next.
Sort your own voice from the inherited ones, on the decision in front of you.
Decide with a coach who asks questions instead of handing you answers.
A fixed-length program, three phases, and support between sessions to help you act on what you choose.
For a long time, I didn't trust my own voice either. On paper, things were going well: I studied at Yale University and worked in tech, including at Microsoft. Underneath, I was leaving the religion I grew up in and coming out as queer. KA stands for kol atzmi, Hebrew for "my own voice." Helping people find theirs is the heart of my work.
Certified Professional Integrative Coach · ICF credential in progress
Here's what happened once people started trusting themselves.
"Shayna skillfully guided me to clarity for what next steps in my business development are actually in tune with my personal values, strengths, and circumstances. This revealed my assumptions that blocked me from completing my project. Their careful listening, intentional questions, and gentle redirections let me see clearly the next steps that are actually personally relevant to me. I feel so grateful and relieved to realize the answers were inside me - I just needed skilled help to connect the dots."
"I was hesitant at first because I worried I'd be told what to do or pushed into a decision or understanding that wasn't really mine. Instead, the sessions gave me the space to find my own answers. One of the biggest shifts was gaining clarity about different aspects of myself, which helped me think through a lot of major things. What I appreciated most about Shayna's coaching style was that they never told me what to do. They asked guiding questions that helped me uncover and gain clarity, and to be able to come to my own conclusions."
30 minutes to talk through what's going on and whether coaching is the right fit.
One-on-one coaching, or the Kol Atzmi Circle, a small group.
Hear it, Trust it, Choose it, on what you've been stuck on.
At KA Coaching, I know you want to be someone who trusts their own voice. To get there, you need to make the call on what's in front of you, whether it's a career change, a relationship, a project that won't move, or what's next, based on what you actually want.
The problem is that every option gets checked against voices that aren't yours: family, culture, religion, or the person you used to be. So the decision stays stuck, and you're left frustrated and second-guessing yourself.
I believe the life you build should sound like your own voice, not someone else's rules. I know how draining it is to keep reopening a choice you've already thought through. Learning to trust myself took years after I left the religion I grew up in, which is why I became an ICF-trained coach and built a structured way to practice self-trust on real decisions.
So book a free Discovery Call, and in the meantime, take the free Life Alignment Assessment, so you can:
On the call, we'll talk about what's going on, what you want, and whether coaching is the right fit. If it isn't, I'll tell you.
Free · 30 minutes · No pressure